Mistakes Were Made
Sometimes it feels like I'm involved in two renovation projects simultaneously: one where everything is done incorrectly, and the other where I've learned from my mistakes. The times where I've built something only to have to dismantle it and rebuild it are too numerous to catalogue here, but there are a couple of errors I've made recently that are worth sharing for an important lesson they provide.
While working on the door jambs, there were a few instances where the door and jamb were much smaller than the rough opening. The reason for this was that at the time the rough opening was built, I wasn't certain what size door was going to end up there. I had a variety of old doors that had come out of the house and others I'd picked up at salvage dealers.
In my zest to get the door jambs installed, more than once I began mounting them on the hinge side before bringing the rough opening more in line with the size of the jamb. This meant I had to add lumber to fill the gap on the lock side or on the top while working around the newly mounted jamb. It meant driving nails into studs at angles while avoiding the finish material of the jamb. It can be especially difficult to hold a piece of lumber that's wedged loosely behind another while at the same time swinging a hammer with a fair degree of accuracy. It would have been much easier to size up the new jamb in the opening and decide if and where I might need to add lumber to fill a gap, before I started mounting the jamb.
Another mistake I made recently was building the jamb for an interior window. This window is designed to allow more light into an otherwise windowless hallway. When I built the jamb, I built it three-sided in the same way I was building the door jambs. It was more difficult later to create a snug opening for the window by adding the sill after the side and top jambs were already mounted than if I had entirely encased the window before mounting the jamb.
Both these situations presented a problem that you're not going to encounter often. Most interior doors are of a standard size, and the rough opening is built to that spec. You probably won't come across that many interior windows, and when you do, they're more often than not going to include their jambs and sill as part of the whole package. So there's not much of a lesson in saying "next time I mount a custom jamb in a rough opening that's too large..." Luckily I was able to work through these mistakes without wasting materials or a lot of time. What I did lose, briefly however, was my patience, and that's where the lesson lies.
There is no more valuable thing, when embarking on a project like this, than having patience with yourself when you screw up. That may seem like a no-brainer to some, but not all of us respond well to failure whether big or small. The wrong response to a mistake can quickly compound the error. Be willing to walk away from a problem, if only for 10 minutes. To keep pounding away at that misbehaving 2x4 may seem cathartic but it's more likely to end up causing expensive damage or worse an injury.
Discouragement can also be debilitating. I've been working at this project for over two years, and sometimes I just want it to be over. The excitement of acquiring an antique house and the honeymoon of Great Possibility is long past but there's still much work to be done. When things aren't going right, the self-doubt creeps in and the urge to give up rises. I could, after all, just pick up the phone and find a contractor. That might free me from the trouble of trial and error in rebuilding my home, but it would also rob me of a keen satisfaction that comes from problem solving, perseverance, and hard work.



















Hi, and Welcome to Builders Share, a forum for Home Improvement stories, instructional guides, tips, and tricks from our user community. I'm Handyman James Graham and I'll be sharing my experiences with you regarding my own house renovation project. Call it a "handyman special" or "this old house for the common man," it's a gut rehab of an 1850's farm house. I've had some great successes, made plenty of mistakes, and learned a whole lot along the way. I'll be sharing all that with you and I'll also be looking for your suggestions and encouragement as I continue with this seemingly endless project.



